tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post49018731599792130..comments2023-10-28T08:02:22.273-05:00Comments on Ashley's Story: Tried, Failed,and TiredAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12507972930307768085noreply@blogger.comBlogger95125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-4940461325781850572008-02-18T23:38:00.000-06:002008-02-18T23:38:00.000-06:00Your words are like rocks in my heart. How I wish...Your words are like rocks in my heart. How I wish for you not to hurt. I don't know you, and I barely know the history of baby Ashley. But I pray that our loving heavenly father can hold in you in HIs arms and let you know that it will be ok.<BR/>Trish, your baby girl needs you, be strong.Ivy Vega from www.ivysmind.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12614765420259792416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-23319575578991029552008-02-18T11:22:00.000-06:002008-02-18T11:22:00.000-06:00You should never have to defend the choices that y...You should never have to defend the choices that you make for your family and I am sorry to hear that sometimes people put you in a position where you feel that you need to. It is obvious that you love your children deeply and would do whatever you feel is right to help them through all that they have to endure. I am sure that you did not expect things to be like this when you adopted Ashley, but this is the path that you have had to take and you inspire me daily with the faith that you take it with. My prayers are with you daily.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-45220661589676021082008-02-18T11:03:00.000-06:002008-02-18T11:03:00.000-06:00Hang in there Trish! You are a wonderful mom, and ...Hang in there Trish! You are a wonderful mom, and I can only imagine that the decisions that need to be made are not easy. Please do not let any comments bring you down. Remember 99% of them are here to give you and your family strength to continue this journey. The other 1%, just do not get it. All we can do is pray for them. Prayers are being sent your way over and over again and also to your wonderful family in Longview!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-30416043761721018502008-02-18T10:55:00.000-06:002008-02-18T10:55:00.000-06:00I've been following your blog for awhile now and I...I've been following your blog for awhile now and I am truely inspired by your faithfulness. You two are amazing parents and it's so obvious how much you love ALL 3 of your children. Your children are so lucky to be so loved and sweet Ashley is so blessed to have you by her side as she fights and fights to breath on her own. From what I've read in your journal you have an amazing family. Stay strong! You give me so much to think about and pray about in my life. Thank you for inspiring me and encouraging me to be the best mom and Christian that I can be. You folks are amazing! I am praying constantly for sweet little Ashley. <BR/><BR/>Love and prayers from Oklahoma,<BR/>Jennifer in OKCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-28235775832556355222008-02-18T10:54:00.000-06:002008-02-18T10:54:00.000-06:00Oh sweet family. How sad I am to read about the g...Oh sweet family. How sad I am to read about the going ons around you. First and foremost, let's thank God for the wonderful things he has and is going to do for us today. I am glad that Dave was able to make it back for the weekend and that you had some time with your husband. I know that Ashlet enjoyed having her father there with her. I am sure she heard him and knew he was there. <BR/>I am so sorry to hear that the recent attempts failed but it might just not be the right time. You want what is best for Ashley and she may still be in need of rest. I fully believe with all my heart that God is in control of your situation and better days are ahead. I know that you other children and so blessed to have you as their parents and they will understand you being away. They had much rather have you with Ashley now than for her to be alone. <BR/>As for the anonymous posting, just take it as the devil coming to kill, steal and destroy your thoughts. He comes in darkness to take joy and strength. If the devil was not fighting you right now, then you wouldn't be doing something right. Words are easy and actions are hard, so hang in there.<BR/><BR/>You are doing wonderful and I pray for betters days, weeks, months and years ahead. Stand on you faith and lean on those who are pulling you along.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-31121840548139201462008-02-18T10:46:00.000-06:002008-02-18T10:46:00.000-06:00Good Morning! We are praying and hoping today brou...Good Morning! We are praying and hoping today brought good news! SunshineSunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698291094595913599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-12725447002283115782008-02-18T10:10:00.000-06:002008-02-18T10:10:00.000-06:00I haven't posted but maybe once or twice but have ...I haven't posted but maybe once or twice but have followed Ashley's story since transplant, praying for her and your family. Although my situation was different in that it was not ongoing, our little girl lost her fight after surgery at 3 days, it was much the same. Noone can understand a mother's heart sitting by a bed in the PICU watching one child struggle and fight for life knowing you have to and want to be there for them, but having your heart break because you know you are also missed and needed at home. My prayers will not only be for Ashley and the family in general, but for you Trish. Praying that God will ease the pain your heart feels and give you the strength you need to make it through each day.<BR/>With love and understanding of the pain your feeling,<BR/>Wendy<BR/>LongviewAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-25563989777197974212008-02-18T09:50:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:50:00.000-06:00In spite of the circumstances that caused you to s...In spite of the circumstances that caused you to start this blog, I really enjoy reading it... It makes me smile the way you talk about Blake and Allie and Ashley and I can hear the love for them from you and Dave as you talk about yer children, no matter the subject area. I only hope that when I have kids my love for them is so obvious and that they feel it as Im sure your's do... Your life is such an encouragement to me... I know I won't come close to understanding what it's been like for you and yer family but I cherish your openness, vulnerability and honesty, as well as your love. And the faith you and Dave have in God have is amazing. You guys have taught me sooo much!! Even though its not easy. I will probably never meet ya's but oh how I wish I could. In heaven :) WHen I see the babies in our local hospital and when I am holding them, I think of Ashley and yer family. You's are never forgotten in prayer! Amber in CanadaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-79439537478477069822008-02-18T09:47:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:47:00.000-06:00You have nothing to prove, you have shown me that ...You have nothing to prove, you have shown me that I can be a better mother.<BR/>I have prayed for Ashley and for your family.<BR/>Thank you for sharing your heart with us.<BR/>Mary in MichiganAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-7021731225087152772008-02-18T09:43:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:43:00.000-06:00Still praying God's will be done, praying for comf...Still praying God's will be done, praying for comfort peace and rest for all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-30701059295250479842008-02-18T09:31:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:31:00.000-06:00You know while there are one's who judge, there ar...You know while there are one's who judge, there are many many more who do not. This world is full of nay sayers Trish but please keep your focus on one's who are sent to support you in your walk. <BR/>The Bible clearly states "DO NOT JUDGE, lest ye be judged. <BR/>I do not walk in your shoes but I walk beside your family and I always will, I am here to uplift you in prayer, please know you are supported.<BR/>I am fervently praying today.Paulettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07060121643634899269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-84548619567791372612008-02-18T09:26:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:26:00.000-06:00Stephanie - KCMOWe prayed aloud for Ashley to get ...Stephanie - KCMO<BR/>We prayed aloud for Ashley to get off the vent yesterday at church and I'll keep praying for that until it happens. I hope you get your plans worked out to be able to fly for Allison's birthday. If KC is a better location and I can help in anyway, please let me know. I feel such friendship and love for your family. May God bless you and keep you close to Him so that you can tell us all the miracles that you see. Love, StephanieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-89687434694942661122008-02-18T09:23:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:23:00.000-06:00Praying.Praying.HennHousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14211470969275795779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-66010916818639805332008-02-18T09:12:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:12:00.000-06:00Remember God will NEVER give you more then you can...Remember God will NEVER give you more then you can handle!!!! He knew the right place for Ashley an it was with a loving family like you guys!!! Your story is really an inspiration to many. We are praying for you an your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-34045748256898568842008-02-18T09:10:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:10:00.000-06:00Praying and holding you close to my heart. As a m...Praying and holding you close to my heart. As a mother, my heart hurts for you. Praying today for a better day and for baby steps. Ash is a fighter.....God planted that in her.<BR/><BR/>Loving all of you,<BR/>Jule WhiteAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-14776608477566383812008-02-18T09:09:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:09:00.000-06:00Hello, Keep on being as strong as you can muster ...Hello, Keep on being as strong as you can muster for your little fighter! When you cannot be strong ask God to fill in the gaps for you. <BR/><BR/> As a paren tof three earthly children and one who is an angel and was taken home to be with Jesus at a mere 19 months, I know how precious every moment is with my children. I pray that your dear Ashley continues to make strides and defy all the doctors' expectations. Lifting you up in prayer today.<BR/><BR/>-Mary Ellen, ConnecticutAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-38123459881153977872008-02-18T09:03:00.000-06:002008-02-18T09:03:00.000-06:00Please don't feel like you need to defend your cho...Please don't feel like you need to defend your choices to the world. The only one you are accountable to is God Himself. He can see how much you love and care for your children and how much you love and trust in Him. It is amazing how you share your story with the world. We are privileged to get a snapshot of your lives through your journal and to lift you up in prayer to our Heavenly Father.<BR/><BR/>Love in Christ,<BR/>SharonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-42057900542891090992008-02-18T08:38:00.000-06:002008-02-18T08:38:00.000-06:00You are doing everything humanly possible. You ha...You are doing everything humanly possible. You have the most beautful children, all three. I can only hope my children turn out as wonderful as yours. They are so very blessed. Everyday you show them love, without fail. You are an inspiration!<BR/>Praying in CT.<BR/>HeidiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-29972124702104133162008-02-18T08:22:00.000-06:002008-02-18T08:22:00.000-06:00Trish, I am so sorry that the extubation was not a...Trish, I am so sorry that the extubation was not as you had hoped. Maybe Ash just needs to heal just a little more and the next time they try she will succeed. I will pray for that. I am praying for all of you.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11496144329456944584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-45620862620246040272008-02-18T08:19:00.001-06:002008-02-18T08:19:00.001-06:00Praying for rest and peace today for you Trish. P...Praying for rest and peace today for you Trish. Praying especially for healing for Ashley. I thank God for what wonderful caring parents you and Dave are. I pray for strength so you can keep running the race.<BR/>Love & Blessings,<BR/>Brandi in PAkingfamilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11140566919732704762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-69835224114592990132008-02-18T08:19:00.000-06:002008-02-18T08:19:00.000-06:00Trish,I am constantly in awe of you as a mother. ...Trish,<BR/><BR/>I am constantly in awe of you as a mother. You inspire and amaze me. I do not understand how anyone could venture to question you or your decisions. You have THREE children, one of them isn't disposable for the sake of the others, and anyone who thinks so is either not a mother or not like any mother I know. <BR/><BR/>I pray for ALL of your children because they are truly all in need of prayer, but I am of the opinion that your two oldest are going to grow up to be exceptional BECAUSE of all this, not in spite of it. God has a plan for them and He knew every day they'd be away from you, He incorporated those days into His plan! <BR/><BR/>Be strong, know we are all praying. Ashley WILL get through this and be breathing on her own soon.missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05808071178116448180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-65071707566414799182008-02-18T08:09:00.000-06:002008-02-18T08:09:00.000-06:00I don't even try to understand or question what yo...I don't even try to understand or question what you and your husband are faced with. It's not my place to do that at all. <BR/><BR/>God, it just makes me sick inside that you both are in that place and your baby is struggling. <BR/><BR/>Prayers will continue as always, and as I pray for Gods Will for your baby, I pray for you two to keep the faith.<BR/><BR/>((Hugs for you all))Dk's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11403488889087101483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-25205488819379861302008-02-18T08:02:00.000-06:002008-02-18T08:02:00.000-06:00My heart aches for you and your family today! I ca...My heart aches for you and your family today! I can only imagine the pain you are going through, and i wish i can make it easier for all of you. Im praying for you all. God loves you and your 3 beautiful children! Thank you for telling us all like it is, and being honest. Its what we all need to do with our family and friends. May God be with you always.Careyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14240436475995632529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-40524953397802905272008-02-18T07:54:00.000-06:002008-02-18T07:54:00.000-06:00I am so sorry :( Please know we are praying for al...I am so sorry :( Please know we are praying for all of you. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through, I have no idea. I can just pray and send love and thoughts your way.<BR/><BR/>With Love and Hope,<BR/><BR/>Jen-William's MomThe Adoption Of Williamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14947100851237329458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-2662804458525296712008-02-18T07:53:00.000-06:002008-02-18T07:53:00.000-06:00Good Morning and God Bless You today....praying fo...Good Morning and God Bless You today....praying for Ashley today and that she will make some steps in the right direction to get off that vent. I can't imagine how tired and frail you must be too. I am praying for Ashley, Trish, Dave, Blake and Allie ....you have become such an inspiration to so many of us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com