tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post7793323794550428067..comments2023-10-28T08:02:22.273-05:00Comments on Ashley's Story: Stolen Secrets and Spoiled SurprisesAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12507972930307768085noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-42384912617411532822007-11-20T21:09:00.000-06:002007-11-20T21:09:00.000-06:00reading this puts me into tears as i hold my baby ...reading this puts me into tears as i hold my baby girl . i couldnt imagen how hard it must be for you . i think of you and your baby girl . your story breaks my heart i bealive in mircales and i pray god brings one for your family. i pray every night for you all . you and your husband are very strong people your little girl is very loved i can see. he is very beautiful god bless her . i can see why you love her so much . children are such a beautiful blessing fom god . i will keep you and your baby in my prayers . my heart goes out to you and your family . much hugs to you ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-35475639773709055752007-11-20T21:05:00.000-06:002007-11-20T21:05:00.000-06:00I am soo saddened by the disappointing news. Jere...I am soo saddened by the disappointing news. Jeremiah says it well..."I know the plans I have for you, plans for good and not evil, to give you a future and a hope." Somehow, this plan is good, because it's God's plan. If Ashley miraculously gets herself well and out of picu, and she can have a day pass, you are more than welcome to come here for Thanksgiving. Mom and STeve and the girls will be here. It's a 2 hr. drive due east, and we live just off of hwy 80, and about 2 miles north. Give us a call if she makes a miraculous turn around, for we will call you family. I know it's not the same, but it beats a hospital anyday. We do not have pets or mold in our home. E-mail me if you come: setfree-@hotmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-25162441914988278222007-11-20T19:49:00.000-06:002007-11-20T19:49:00.000-06:00Hi Trish - I have read this post several times. I...Hi Trish - I have read this post several times. I wanted to wait to see if God would give me some "magic" words that I could speak to you to help lighten your broken heart. No words have come.<BR/><BR/>My heart is broken for you. I know how very special that would have been for all parties involved. The only thing I know is that God DOES have His reasons and I am confident that if He felt it was completely safe for you to venture out to surprise your family, He certainly would have made in possible. You are so good in trusting Him and accepting what He says is right for your life. I just want you to rely on that. Honey, every tear your cry, He cries with you and for you! Lean on Him...there is no one, other than HIM that can give you the peace you need.<BR/><BR/>You are so precious and while you may not get to spend the Holidays as you would like to...and ANYONE would like to...I believe that God will truly bless you and honor you for doing the right thing, even when it's hard. You have remained faithful to Him, Trish. You have continued to praise Him, Trish. And you are being obedient to His calling and right now His calling for you is for you to care for this precious angel that He has entrusted to you. Remember the story of Job? You will be blessed and honor for the job you are doing and for your unwavering faith!!<BR/><BR/>Much love - I hope there is something in all of these posts that you can gain some comfort from.<BR/><BR/>Hug that baby girl and give her a kiss for Kyle and I. <BR/><BR/>Praying..<BR/>In Christ,<BR/>Amy and KyleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-49483759039818353402007-11-20T18:09:00.000-06:002007-11-20T18:09:00.000-06:00as a mother, my heart is hurting right there along...as a mother, my heart is hurting right there along with you! you are so very right, His plans are bigger and better than ours. one day you will understand, even though right now it hurts and doesn't seem fair. <BR/><BR/>keep being strong for your family, but let it out when you need to for yourself. <BR/><BR/>i wish we lived closer (i'm in california), i would definitely come and visit you. but i will definitely send my prayers up for you and ash and your family.<BR/><BR/>love,<BR/>MelissaMelissa De Mershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15210753469430270627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-20466659482034346322007-11-20T17:47:00.000-06:002007-11-20T17:47:00.000-06:00I have and will continue to pray for Ashley and yo...I have and will continue to pray for Ashley and you all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-83163571795678853242007-11-20T16:08:00.000-06:002007-11-20T16:08:00.000-06:00I can't help it but ache and cry for you. I also s...I can't help it but ache and cry for you. I also see the blessings in your life and so proud of how you deal with your "life." Keep your focus on Jesus and this fight will be won soon.<BR/><BR/>Loving you from afar! Praying too!<BR/><BR/>ShariAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-51873350877117065802007-11-20T15:45:00.000-06:002007-11-20T15:45:00.000-06:00Note to "really really stupid question":Even thoug...Note to "really really stupid question":<BR/>Even though it's not my place to answer your question..which by the way I don't believe there are any stupid questions, but from what I have read in this journal...and I do believe there is a very recent post about it...Trish & Dave have put some extremely careful thought into choosing this hospital and these doctors. There is a reason they have been chosen. <BR/>I'm sorry if I have spoken out of turn here. I do not mean to offend anyone. <BR/>It is a very nice thought. <BR/>Trish I do apologize if I should not have posted this. I just felt compelled to do so!<BR/>Still praying!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-90063379036929230112007-11-20T14:44:00.000-06:002007-11-20T14:44:00.000-06:00Trish,Since I don't have time to send you a card t...Trish,<BR/>Since I don't have time to send you a card through the mail, as I did before, I have to venture out of lurker status to tell you how heavy you have been on my heart these past few days. I am sooo sad for you and Dave an sweet Ashley, that you aren't able to be together with your family as you'd been planning. Your disappointment is palpable. My heart aches for you. <BR/><BR/>I will continue to pray for healing for Ashley and for continued strength for each of you. I am utterly amazed and in awe of your faith and feel truly blessed to be able to lift you up in prayer. It is teaching me new things every day.<BR/><BR/>Keep your chin up,<BR/>G from Ky.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-10415000621963616922007-11-20T14:04:00.000-06:002007-11-20T14:04:00.000-06:00Really, really stupid question and certainly not o...Really, really stupid question and certainly not one meant to offend. But is there seriously no hospital in all of Texas that is closer than this one? A hospital that could tend to the needs of your child and still allow you to to not be forced to live out of a suitcase for months on end?<BR/><BR/>Is Omaha truly the only place that can care for Ashley?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-61909841717603120152007-11-20T13:15:00.000-06:002007-11-20T13:15:00.000-06:00what a beautiful surprise that you planned for you...what a beautiful surprise that you planned for your family! How much joy it must have brought you and Dave to plan it and dream about it.<BR/>I pray that even though it didn't actually happen, the very fact that you tried will mean alot to your family tomorrow. we trust God to find unexpected ways to bring joy to you all there in Ohmaha. It is a Huge disappointment though! Praying in central ILAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-73665879418426749042007-11-20T12:25:00.000-06:002007-11-20T12:25:00.000-06:00Trish~I am so sorry for your disappointments. I k...Trish~<BR/><BR/>I am so sorry for your disappointments. I know you are heartbroken - I can feel it in your post. Please know that I continue to hold you so close and pray continually for precious Ashley and your entire family.<BR/><BR/>Please hug and kiss your little miracle from me!! <BR/><BR/>Love, Jule WhiteAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-6963606579104182552007-11-20T11:49:00.000-06:002007-11-20T11:49:00.000-06:00Trish, Ashley, and Family,I'm so sorry about your ...Trish, Ashley, and Family,<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry about your disappointment with this holiday season after being slow close. I will be praying not only for Ashley but for your entire family as you spend yet another holiday away from your family and friends that the holidays are made of. I'm sure that your family is understanding and blessed by little Ashley.<BR/><BR/>((HUGS))<BR/><BR/>JessieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-47329975995674812182007-11-20T10:12:00.001-06:002007-11-20T10:12:00.001-06:00Trish and Dave ~ I am sure your doctors are more t...Trish and Dave ~ I am sure your doctors are more than capable of caring for Ash, and my sharing this is not to question them. I just feel that we went thru something "similar" (and I use that term loosely) for a reason. Morgan had a great deal of fluid overload after her thrombosis. We did chest tubes, vents, etc. One thing that finally worked was Octreatide (sp?). Morgan's doctors were hesitant to use it, but it became our only option. It took a little longer than the recommended time to allow it to work... but her doctors at TCH gave it more time and it did serve its purpose. You may just mention it to your doctors. It may not be useful for Ash, but I just wanted to share that with you. Still praying and thinking of you this holiday.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12580965512608881039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-86640854494899641372007-11-20T10:12:00.000-06:002007-11-20T10:12:00.000-06:00Thinking of you, and praying much. So sorry to hea...Thinking of you, and praying much. So sorry to hear this. Wish I could do more. <BR/><BR/>LeeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-5381633398228334202007-11-20T10:03:00.000-06:002007-11-20T10:03:00.000-06:00I am so, so sorry. This post makes my heart ache ...I am so, so sorry. This post makes my heart ache so much for you all. I am praying for a Christmas miracle!PartyofFivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03404332900597507645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-8227969772399664072007-11-20T09:58:00.000-06:002007-11-20T09:58:00.000-06:00I am so sorry that your plans did not work out. Ju...I am so sorry that your plans did not work out. Just know we are praying for you. Lots of prayers & hugs coming your way.<BR/>Blessings,<BR/>Lori and familyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-44310864343227887962007-11-20T09:52:00.000-06:002007-11-20T09:52:00.000-06:00I am sorry to leave another comment but I have you...I am sorry to leave another comment but I have your package all ready (I know it has taken forever...sorry) but I wanted to know if you by chance had an updated address? Much love - SunshineSunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698291094595913599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-85701241566677275762007-11-20T09:39:00.000-06:002007-11-20T09:39:00.000-06:00I will be praying! May something truly beautiful ...I will be praying! May something truly beautiful come out of this disappointment.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-20587200637575666942007-11-20T09:38:00.000-06:002007-11-20T09:38:00.000-06:00I am so sorry about the turn of events in the last...I am so sorry about the turn of events in the last couple of days. I don't have eloquent words, just prayers that will hopefully ease your pain. I pray God's peace and healing today.<BR/>-Cari in ArkansasAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-32957335780076334162007-11-20T09:37:00.000-06:002007-11-20T09:37:00.000-06:00Oh Trish, I'm so sorry about your hard disappointm...Oh Trish, I'm so sorry about your hard disappointment. Having hopes dashed is really hard to swallow. <BR/><BR/>I am praying for another miraculous upswing in Ashley's condition, and that God surrounds you in a big way today as you're in the PICU.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03867656058895825645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-36368729184099192902007-11-20T09:20:00.000-06:002007-11-20T09:20:00.000-06:00I am sorry Trish....thank you for your wonderful w...I am sorry Trish....thank you for your wonderful words that are such a testament to all of us....we are thankful for you and your family. Prayers never cease for you and your family....MistieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-73967402034683092112007-11-20T08:55:00.000-06:002007-11-20T08:55:00.000-06:00Praying all the time!!Staci BarhamPraying all the time!!<BR/><BR/>Staci BarhamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-39481893486091190962007-11-20T08:52:00.000-06:002007-11-20T08:52:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry about the disappointment. Hold on to...I'm so sorry about the disappointment. Hold on to the thought that something beautiful will come around. I really admire your faithfulness during this trying time. <BR/>Continuing to pray for your sweet Ashley.camillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12493206160470634301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-55082274497869877612007-11-20T08:46:00.000-06:002007-11-20T08:46:00.000-06:00All I can do is pray....that's what I'm doing for ...All I can do is pray....that's what I'm doing for you!<BR/>Love in Christ,<BR/>ElizabethElizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01869380658771637630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-14500580578701248552007-11-20T08:34:00.000-06:002007-11-20T08:34:00.000-06:00So sorry Trish! I'm praying for God's awesome pre...So sorry Trish! I'm praying for God's awesome presence in the midst of your disappointment. You're surrounded by prayer warriors continually lifting your family to Him. Thank you for the privilege.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com