tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post7949994832237308391..comments2023-10-28T08:02:22.273-05:00Comments on Ashley's Story: How I wish...Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12507972930307768085noreply@blogger.comBlogger68125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-70838883474806458362007-03-22T15:32:00.000-06:002007-03-22T15:32:00.000-06:00I'm here from In The Midst, through Moms In Action...I'm here from In The Midst, through Moms In Action, and through little Elliot's story earlier, the long way around. I've been an occasional lurker here for about 6 months now. But Sara's plea for us to band together and encourage you brought me out of lurking!<BR/><BR/>I have regularly marvelled at your generous and compassionate spirit and your absolute and total belief in God's faithfulness and sovereignty. You are a wonderful example of faith in the hard times. I am so sorry that your honest and gut-wrenching vulnerability was used against you. I've been there, I think we all have - both in the place of having our hearts' cries used against us and of being overwhelmed by the tasks of our life.<BR/><BR/>I pray that our Refiner uses this to purify you more and reflect His glory more in you. That' where we find ultimate healing, isn't it?! And I pray that you continue to find HIS true rest, in knowing that you are loved and cherished by Him and by all of us who follow your family's faith journey.<BR/><BR/>Many blessings to you and little Ashley's healing body!<BR/><BR/>Tracy WAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-51384017046715654922007-03-22T11:29:00.000-06:002007-03-22T11:29:00.000-06:00Well, somebody does need to get a grip--but it sur...Well, somebody does need to get a grip--but it sure isn't you!!! <BR/><BR/>Sending prayers your way; I'm here from Sarah's blog.Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10928563068558130801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-39284526881258725622007-03-22T10:42:00.000-06:002007-03-22T10:42:00.000-06:00I haven't kept up reguarly, but through another As...I haven't kept up reguarly, but through another Ash, I have learned and prayed...<BR/><BR/>I don't know what to say, but it hurts to think that sometimes we humans can be so cruel.<BR/><BR/>Just sending a :hug: from Colorado.Springjoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00080596105274362907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-79188565729369237872007-03-21T21:18:00.000-06:002007-03-21T21:18:00.000-06:00I'm so glad y'all made it back home. The mean-spir...I'm so glad y'all made it back home. The mean-spirited words say much more about the character of the one saying them than the one to whom they are said. Hang in there and remember that many people are praying for you. God is faithful and I pray that He will give you His strength.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-88389507438909328492007-03-21T18:53:00.000-06:002007-03-21T18:53:00.000-06:00Trish, I applaud you for allowing God to use your ...Trish, I applaud you for allowing God to use your blog in the way He desires. I, for one, have appreciated your honesty. I have learned so much through what you have shared. You have been open and vulnerable and I'm sure you have blessed so many. I'm sorry someone was hurtful in what they shared. I do think your blog reflects how much you cherish each blessing that you have. I never cease to be amazed at the daisies and rainbows that come through your posts in the midst of trying times. The Lord knows your hurt, He knows the person, and He holds everyone accountable. Most of all, I'm sorry Allie was affected. I know the Lord's embrace will help you overcome the hurt. Just remember . . . "no weapon formed against us shall prosper . . . "Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-46656234033154638552007-03-21T15:39:00.000-06:002007-03-21T15:39:00.000-06:00I just randomly came across your sweet blog today....I just randomly came across your sweet blog today. I am so sorry for the words that hurt you – most likely written by someone who has NO CLUE. My twin daughters were stillborn about a year and a half ago and one of my biggest goals in dealing with the grief involved with that was to be completely open and honest with it all. I think there is so much strength in the ability to be transparent, especially in faith. How can we learn from one another if we all walked around like robots, smiling to each other, chanting “It’s all going to be okay – God is in control” The fact of the matter is that yes, God is in control, but this world we live in is a ugly place and as I recall it, I am pretty sure our Father is seeking honest hearts. We will struggle and He will understand and your openness regarding these struggles has no doubt spoken to and inspired a magnitude of hearts already. <BR/><BR/>Words are vicious. Lately I’ve found myself not sharing more then photos, for the words I want to say will be judged, and that is incredibly hard on the heart.<BR/><BR/>Please continue to share as you have been, not allowing this “anonymous” person to hinder the work God is doing through you. Again, I am sorry that you even have to endure this. Praying for your family today.::Traci::https://www.blogger.com/profile/06534637007800864188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-64227710270233770972007-03-21T12:59:00.000-06:002007-03-21T12:59:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry that you have shared so much of your ...I'm so sorry that you have shared so much of your heart and been hurt in return. Please know that there are many, many people who read your blog & pray for your family because we really care. I hope that the person who left the nasty comment has come back and realized how hurtful their words were... maybe they will think twice before dashing off a nasty remark in the future.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05586345335424142815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-57680593423774869682007-03-21T07:48:00.000-06:002007-03-21T07:48:00.000-06:00It is absolutely wonderful and uplifting to read a...It is absolutely wonderful and uplifting to read all the wonderful comments left by so many. God is truly using you, Trish and Dave as you have shared so much through Ashley's journal. Please continue to be encouraged by the many, many fabulous folks who have time after time been on their knees on behalf of Ashley and the family. I know that God is pleased with you sharing your heart and for speaking words that the Holy Spirit gives you that others need to hear. My prayers go up for the one who is hurting from their own losses. Even though the comment left may have been hurtful, our God will use it for the good of many. May God's blessings flow to each and every one who is effected by the comments left on this blog and may we all concentrate on giving our precious Lord the thanksgiving He deserves greatly for all His wonderous works!!!! Praise Him, Praise Him, Praise Him for Ashley's homecoming!!!!!!! It's so wonderful to have her back here with us! Love and Hugs, GrandmaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-35908657708274339012007-03-20T18:08:00.000-06:002007-03-20T18:08:00.000-06:00Trish, I am sorry that people feel the need to pos...Trish, I am sorry that people feel the need to post negativity. If there weren't so many people that use the "anonymous" identity to post encouraging things, I would suggest doing away with the anonymous comments. I just want you to know that I have been encouraged time and time again by this story, and by you as a mother. You are a great mom and wife and anyone who reads this site regularly can see that!! Be encouraged today, because although you may not always be able to see it, God IS using Ashley's story for good!! Blessings on you and yours!!!!Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02327630362981852611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-13631282367946272532007-03-20T15:28:00.000-06:002007-03-20T15:28:00.000-06:00Just here to say I am praying for you...and suppor...Just here to say I am praying for you...and supporting you! Your journey sounds like a very difficult one...but I know our God is with you every step of the way---the painful days and the joyful ones. may you always trust in Him!<BR/><BR/>Praying today!<BR/>KimKimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06223175539772172259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-37322492451656231092007-03-20T15:15:00.000-06:002007-03-20T15:15:00.000-06:00I am so so so sorry for your pain....it's like you...I am so so so sorry for your pain....it's like you do not need one more thing....<BR/><BR/>I just wrote a devotional on mean people...and in it.. I have determined that I have at some point come across to someone as a mean person and I would ask that someone forgive me just as I am going to forgive this person...<BR/><BR/>That said....<BR/><BR/>This is one of those wonderful opportunities where I envisioned Christ going to the Cross taking my Sins with Him...<BR/>(I promise I don't mean to sound like I"m preachin')<BR/><BR/>It's hard, I know.. I'd prefer to pinch his /her head off....but what a wonderful example to everyone.. if you rise above this person....<BR/><BR/>If I was there I would hug you (unless you aren't a hugger, then I would bow) big smile....<BR/><BR/>I'm praying for you and sweet Ashley... and sweet Allie...all your family<BR/><BR/>ConnieConnie Barrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14808121049884128782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-39525194020852909002007-03-20T14:26:00.000-06:002007-03-20T14:26:00.000-06:00Hi there, This is Sarah's grandma.Although it hurt...Hi there, This is Sarah's grandma.<BR/><BR/>Although it hurts tremendously, and is mean spirited and awful, one little thorn does not destroy the rose. <BR/><BR/> When we're least able to bear the pain, we'll run into them someimes, and no, this isn't fair. <BR/><BR/> Refuse to let this hurt you any more by thinking about it. In God's garden you and your family are still a beautiful rose.Judithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11127746214155107976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-87314430980847828512007-03-20T13:59:00.001-06:002007-03-20T13:59:00.001-06:00I just found your blog today...and I want to reinf...I just found your blog today...and I want to reinforce for you how incredibly courageous and GIVING it is to do what you do here. Sharing your family's story is so important to other families that are facing challenges each day with sick children. Knowing that someone else is going through a similar challenge, persevering, and surviving it, is just SO IMPORTANT. I believe we are all on this earth for one reason - to touch other's lives in a positive way. You are doing that here. The people out there who may respond negatively are the people who probably need blogs like this more than anyone else. Bless you and your family and your wonderful, beautiful little girl. You will be in my prayers.<BR/><BR/>Wendy<BR/>caribousmom.blogharbor.comWendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14332796775305098552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-50365435590128999762007-03-20T13:59:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:59:00.000-06:00This is my first visit. I have come from Sarah's....This is my first visit. I have come from Sarah's. I am so very sorry that you have been so hurt. I know there are those who would tell us not to care what others say, but that is so much easier said than done. Those words do hurt - right to the heart. Please know that I have nothing but absolute admiration for you. Your sweet spirit and tender heart are so obvious. I'm going to add Ashley and your family to my prayer list. I only pray that I will handle the inevitable difficulties in my life with the faith and grace and love that you have.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14937532276250199445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-86594240081714911482007-03-20T13:57:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:57:00.000-06:00Trish,I have come on multiple times today (between...Trish,<BR/><BR/>I have come on multiple times today (between taking care of kids) to finish reading your post. <BR/><BR/>I am so sorry! It broke my heart to read this. You don't deserve these unkind words. I have never met you but I know through reading Ashley's journal that you are one amazing person. We are praying for all of you. <BR/><BR/>Blessings,<BR/>LoriAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-39709043063780961322007-03-20T13:42:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:42:00.000-06:00Trish, I am commenting for the first time, but I h...Trish, I am commenting for the first time, but I have been following Ashley's story for a long while -- and adding my prayers to those of others who lift you up to the Lord regularly. I have NOT read that hurtful comment and will not, but it pains me to read about yours and Allie's pain over this. Know that your family's story has strengthened my faith. I plan to ask our Bible study to pray for your family tonight!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-77427709198468162382007-03-20T13:39:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:39:00.000-06:00Trish, I am deeply sorry for the words that were l...Trish, I am deeply sorry for the words that were left here that hurt you and your daughter. I will pray for anonymous to be filled with the fruits of the spirit; love, joy, peace, patience, goodness, & self-contrl. Negativity and judgement were not included there. My prayer is that anonymous will find that negative comments are not welcome or helpful here. Trish, I hope that you do agree with previous posts and decide to take note of how many positive posts you get vs. the negative. I know that they must still hurt but those posts, are being left by a hurt person. My prayer is also that anonymous will find another outlet for their negativity and hurt rather than using it to disturb others and their families. I really appreciate all aspects of Ashley's journal. I do not always leave a comment but I check it several times a day. I appreciate that you are open and willing to share your story. I have passed this site on to many prayer warriors that I know. Most importantly, I have seen Jesus in yourself and your husband. I think that others would agree.Living to Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13549584038649197671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-19111955688349929032007-03-20T13:38:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:38:00.000-06:00Keep moving forward. You and your family are such ...Keep moving forward. You and your family are such an inspiration to so many people. I encourage you to press on in the name of the LORD. Thanks for your willingness to share your life story with us.<BR/>Much love to all!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-63186306588821343792007-03-20T13:32:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:32:00.000-06:00So glad that you are home and all together again!!...So glad that you are home and all together again!!! What a huge step in the right direction!!!<BR/><BR/>Please don't take on the burden of someone elses pain. Hurting people choose to hurt. your story is a blessing to many! <BR/><BR/>Perhaps consider not allowing annonymous comments.Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11787097327811862740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-89271262565659259702007-03-20T13:29:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:29:00.000-06:00Numbness is not an option. This is your life. Ma...Numbness is not an option. This is your life. Make the most of it. Sweet Ashley is teaching lesson you may never envision. Hang in there. I have family members press the same issues along with some other opinions. Yet, they are rarely here. They do not carry the burdens, or understand the pain. When we put personal information out there, we have to be ready for the fact that not everyone cares or feels the same way. But look at the support from hundreds compared to the opinion of one. You are surrounded with love. <BR/>How's the mylanta working? <BR/>Gwen.Ivey's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09193400877174754085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-22826764162603867782007-03-20T13:17:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:17:00.000-06:00((((Hugs))) to Trish and her family. Thanks for s...((((Hugs))) to Trish and her family. Thanks for sharing the good, the bad, and the ugly with us. I have laughed and cried and prayed along with you for several months now. Thank you. I'll keep praying, too.Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13945075736461455527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-21277267282523061662007-03-20T13:05:00.001-06:002007-03-20T13:05:00.001-06:00Hi Trish,I occasionally check in on you and Ashley...Hi Trish,<BR/>I occasionally check in on you and Ashley...I'm so glad she is home. People's words can cut us so deep...my heart aches for you that someone would do that to you...<BR/>I rejoice in the blessings of your uexpected homecoming.... You have been through so much... I wish I could take the pain of those words away. I hope just the amount of good comments you have received will encourage your heart!!<BR/>Love,Leanne HeernLeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01976256840483823480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-31713117466283134392007-03-20T13:05:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:05:00.000-06:00I just got done reading Sarah's post today, and sh...I just got done reading Sarah's post today, and she was telling us about someone saying such hurtful things to you. I am so very sorry anybody would do such a terrible thing. I'm saying extra prayers for you that this will not discourage you from being open to others. It is so obvious what a wonderful ministry your story and your dear child's life is. God bless and big hug, Mary from Georgia (someone who reads Sarah's blogs)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-63443955335904207622007-03-20T13:02:00.001-06:002007-03-20T13:02:00.001-06:00I'm so sorry you were hurt like this. You are a b...I'm so sorry you were hurt like this. You are a blessing to many!(I followed a link from Sarah at "in the midst of it" to your site - I will be praying for you and your family!) God loves you more than you can imagine!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33735305.post-39017708838587596412007-03-20T13:02:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:02:00.000-06:00My husband and I are in ministry and we feel we ar...My husband and I are in ministry and we feel we are on the fron line of the battle field, we have bullets coming from every different direction. Your family, is also in ministry, through this story of Ashley's, you are touching so many lives through this story, and you are helping several of Gods people grow in their walk, It's got to be very hard but please try not to take it personal the enemy doesn't want Ashley's story to continue because so many are being touched by her story, continue the race. I just posted something last night that kind of goes along with this, and I used this scripture, only I posted it from THE MESSAGE BIBLE, I usually use NIV but this really meant a lot to me, with what I'm going through from THE MESSAGE. So keep running! Hebrews 12:1-3 "Do you see what this means—all these pioneers who blazed the way, all these veterans cheering us on? It means we'd better get on with it. Strip down, start running—and never quit! No extra spiritual fat, no parasitic sins. Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we're in. Study how he did it. Because he never lost sight of where he was headed—that exhilarating finish in and with God—he could put up with anything along the way: Cross, shame, whatever. And now he's there, in the place of honor, right alongside God. When you find yourselves flagging in your faith, go over that story again, item by item, that long litany of hostility he plowed through. That will shoot adrenaline into your souls! " The Message<BR/>You are a great servant, serving HIM. Keep on keepin on!!!!!!!!!!!Cathy Fryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00222691492426930288noreply@blogger.com